7 Reasons Not to End it All
Even with all its ups and downs and everything in between, life can be a beautiful, wondrous journey. But….
…Maybe at this moment, you feel as if life has left you gasping for air, unable to move or even breathe.
I’ve been there.
Maybe you think that your life doesn’t matter.
Definitely been there.
Maybe you feel as if things will never get better.
Yep, I’ve been there, too.
Through my own journey of darkness and despair, our heavenly Father revealed His deep love for me — for us all — as I began to open my heart to Him daily and share my pain. Truly, I was in such a dark place that only the love, compassion, and power of Jesus Christ could pull me out.
If you’re currently in that same dark place, I would like to share with you some of the divine revelations I received during my intimate talks with Him…..
You are LOVED much more than you know.
At this moment you may feel as if no one truly cares. Maybe you feel that if you left this world no one would notice.
But, nothing could be farther from the truth!
Our heavenly Father has created you in love and had plans for you even before you were born; He even knows the number of the hairs on your head (Psalms 103).
God has a GREAT LOVE for you (Ephesians 2:4-5) and His love for you is also an EVERLASTING (forever) (Jeremiah 31:3) and an UNFAILING love (Psalm 109:26). This deep love that He has for you means that He’s ALWAYS concerned with what concerns you. He’s always ready, willing, and able to listen to your heart and fill you with peace and comfort. He desires for you not to be afraid or discouraged about ANYTHING, because He will be with you WHEREVER you go (Joshua 1:9), and He will NEVER leave you!
Your family and friends may not always verbally express their love for you, but I can assure you – you’re always in their thoughts. You have a special “way” about you, and you fill a void for many people. It will be very difficult for your friends and family to imagine their lives without you. Whether your loved ones express it or not, their plans for the future definitely include YOU!
I know from experience that there are also many other people that you may not even realize who cherish your presence. These people may include co-workers, employees, the barista at your favorite coffee shop - I could go on and on.
Really consider this.
You’re surrounded by people every day who enjoy being in your company, even if it’s just for brief moments in time.
You ARE CHERISHED here.
There will NEVER be another you.
You’re an original. There has never been, nor will ever be, someone like you. You were created carefully and wonderfully by the creator of all the universe (Psalm 139:14). Our Father also created you to be born at a specific time and place for a specific purpose (Ephesians 2:10; Ecclesiastes 3:1).
There’s a purpose that only YOU can fulfill. This world cannot replace you. YOU are truly valuable. Your absence would leave a gaping hole through space and time. Yes, the loss of your presence would reverberate throughout the universe. I believe Albert Einstein's research may illustrate the void left in the fabric of time over the absence of just ONE human being.
Yes, you’re truly that IMPORTANT!
Life ALWAYS gets better.
I’ve lived long enough to know that no matter how “bad” things may seem, they NEVER stay that way.
Life ebbs and flows, like the waves of the ocean, but there is ALWAYS a lesson to be learned and ALWAYS something to be gained. Just as the dark clouds of thunderstorms soon give way to sunshine, our lives go through changes over time. But each time we encounter challenges, we ALWAYS become better prepared and equipped for each storm.
Our heavenly Father ALWAYS has a plan for you (Jeremiah 29:11). No matter what happens, life ALWAYS seems to work out, to fall into place.
There is ALWAYS someone there to catch you when you fall. There is ALWAYS someone to talk to, someone willing to help you.
The truth is, many of the people you meet or interact with every day have all had to climb the same mountain. That’s why there are so many people who truly understand you and are willing and able to help.
Don’t internalize your pain. Pour out your heart to those you trust until you feel the weight lift. Share your journey with a trusted family member, friend, neighbor, teacher, pastor, counselor, or doctor about what you're going through. There are also groups at church, school, hospitals, community centers, or online that have the resources to help you.
When you start reaching out to others, they’re more than happy to reach out to you as well.
Your pain and experiences matter to others. We can ALL relate!
You are NOT alone.
As I write these words, there are thousands of people across the globe who are dealing with feelings of pain, loss, and despair. You’re definitely not alone.
Our heavenly Father is right there by your side, waiting for you to share your heart with Him. He will never leave you during your time of struggle and despair (Deuteronomy 31:8). Sometimes in our pain, it may be difficult to sense God’s presence, or even His love. But He holds the past, present, and future in the palm of His hand, and He is our best chance when the dark clouds seem to settle on us.
So many of us are facing obstacles that seem difficult to overcome. Everyone is searching for answers, comfort, strength, and solace. No doubt, many people may hide their struggles and challenges because they also believe that they’re alone in their suffering. I hid my own pain for years before I realized that there were people that could help me.
We’re NOT powerless — we have the power to make changes, to help one another. We need each other more than ever.
This brings me to my next revelation…
Your pain can HELP others.
Even in your pain and despair, you can be a beacon of light for others. You can share your pain while helping others to share their own. The Lord can use your experiences to help illuminate the path for others, turning tragedy into triumph (Romans 8:28).
Through the wisdom and direction of our Father, you have the means to transform your pain into healing and positivity. Lean on the shoulders of others, as they lean on yours. You may find that sharing your time, even volunteering in your community, can be therapeutic and reveal your true strength and resilience.
You’re stronger than you think – even in your pain, you have POWER!
You can leave behind a greater LEGACY.
You’re too precious and valuable to leave behind a legacy of pain and anguish.
You’re an amazing human being – your legacy should hold memories of joy, love, fun times, and the unique contributions you made to the world and those around you. Even now, when people think of you, they smile.
Your presence is imprinted on the hearts and minds of so many. Your life and your presence have deep meaning. You’re so much more than your pain.
Continue to dream, continue to try new things. Continue forward.
You are a multifaceted human being with a future brighter than the sun!
God has GREAT plans for your life.
Every beautiful soul that comes into the world has a unique assignment and purpose that only they can fulfill – and that includes YOU!
YOU were born for greatness. YOU were born with a unique purpose and divine destiny. YOU were born with a specific gift or talent that the world needs right now. No one on earth comes into the world without something special to contribute. No one!
If you’re uncertain about what your purpose is, ask our heavenly Father to reveal it to you. He will direct you in the right direction (Psalm 32:8; Proverbs 3:5-6). Keep your eyes and heart open - He may reveal your purpose through unexpected people or situations. He may reveal your purpose through something that you are passionate about or may be particularly good at. If you ask friends, family, or even coworkers about what makes you unique or what special talents you may have, their answers may also reveal your purpose.
We’re all like pieces of a giant puzzle that come together to push humanity forward. If just one piece is missing, we cannot truly thrive and survive.
We need each other. We need YOU!
….And I cherish you! (A bonus reason).
That’s right. It’s from my own journey of healing that I write these words to you. I want to help pull you out of the dark and seemingly hopeless place I was in. I know how bad things can seem. But don’t let the evil one convince you that there’s no hope (John 10:10), because there’s ALWAYS hope! The evil one wants to see you fail; he tries really hard to convince us all that this life is meaningless (1 Peter 5:8). But our heavenly Father would love to see you thrive and live out all the joy and abundance that He desires for you!
I write these words because I feel a deep connection to you through the trials we endure together in this life. I truly love and care for you! And I KNOW that life will get even better for you from this moment forward.
And like our heavenly Father, I want you to win in this life! I want to see you be victorious!
Pour out your heart to the Lord today. He is waiting to hear your heart. Tell Him about your pain, your fears, your struggles. He will understand and heal the broken and dark places. And He will transform your life from the inside out. Trust me!
I pray and believe with all of my heart that you can overcome the darkness and write an exciting new chapter in your life!
Just like I did.
A Prayer for a Heavy Heart…
Heavenly Father,
Thank you for this opportunity to share my pain, my suffering, and my struggle with You.
I come to You with the crushing weight of despair heavy on my heart.
You promise to fill me with all joy and peace as I trust in You, so that I may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. (Romans 15:13)
Lord, I confess I don’t always feel that joy or peace, but I ask that You breathe Your hope into me right now.
You invite me to cast all my anxieties on You because You care for me. So I lay down my fears, my sadness, and even my darkest thoughts before You, believing that You see me and love me through it all. (1 Peter 5:7)
Your Word says that grace and peace are multiplied in the knowledge of You. Lord, multiply that grace and peace in my life, and let it bring healing to my thoughts, my emotions, and the deepest places where I feel broken. (2 Peter 1:2)
When I feel unworthy or unloved, remind me that You graciously give me everything I need to endure and to live. (Romans 8: 31-32)
Help me remember, that my body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, that I am not my own, but was bought at a price. My life is precious to You, and even when I want to give up, You are holding me close. (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)
And in my darkest moments, I cling to Your promise that when the righteous cry out, You hear them; You deliver them from all their troubles.
You are near to the brokenhearted and save those crushed in spirit.
Though I may feel many afflictions, You promise to deliver me through them all. (Psalm 34:17–19)
Lord, hold me in Your arms. Help me believe that my story isn’t over, that You are still writing my story with love, and that the light of Your presence will one day soon outshine this darkness.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.
“Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed”, says the Lord, who has compassion on you.”
What are you struggling with today? What hurdles or obstacles are you facing?
Have you shared your struggles with anyone?
Would you like to become a part of God’s family and receive God’s free gift of eternal life?
How can I pray for you today?
